…between backbiting and warning people? If the warning is done with bad manners and in bad taste, but there is some actual useful information in it?
How would you react if you heard that a scholar you admired publically beat his wife? Do you try to confirm this by seeking out the person who says they saw it, or do you brush it aside? And then how do you approach the scholar after this? Take the good from him and leave the bad?
In other, happier news, I’ve been doing very well with my salat alhamdulilah. As isha creeps later, I’ve started to go to sleep after maghrib and have AbuSqueakster wake me up when he goes to bed around midnight to pray isha. I think some new medication I’m taking is wreaking havoc on my ability to fall asleep though, as I’ve been tossing and turning for quite awhile before I finally manage to drift off. I’m tiiiiiiiired.
Also doing well with my foundation expansion alhamdulilah. Granted, I’m only on day 3, but I’ve not turned on the television when I got home and instead spent time with Squeaky and AbuSqueakster, cleaned (my stove is clean!) and read 10 minutes of Qur’an. Alhamdulilah.