…lost everything? You probably have, without knowing it
The Prophet (saws) said, “Whoever misses an `asr prayer, it is as if he has lost his family and wealth.” (Muslim)
SubhanAllah, how traumatized would I be if I lost my husband and my cat? I’d be curled up in a ball under the covers for a week at least. Yet how many ‘asr prayers have I let slip away without so much as a blink of an eyelash?